HOW TO BE A REAL MAN!!!
KNOW YOUR ROLE AT HOME!!!
OK WE KNOW WE’RE SUPPOSED TO BE THE PROVIDERS IN THE HOUSEHOLD BUT IN TODAY’S MODERN ERA THE WOMAN WANTS TO BE THE MAN AND THE WOMAN OF THE RELATIONSHIP. THAT’S A FUCKING NO OFF THE BAT! HOW IN THE WORLD ARE YOU GOING TO TUCK YOUR NUTS IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS AND LET HER RUN THE HOUSE. IN MOST CASES, YOU’RE NOT THE CEO OF THE JOB YOU WORK AT; YOU TAKE ORDERS ALL DAY THEN YOU COME HOME TO DO THE SAME THING GTFOH (GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE)! NOW FOR YOU BROKE, NO JOB, NO HUSTLE ASS MEN; YOU’RE NOT IN THIS EQUATION. NOW, FOR MY BROTHERS WHO BUST THEY ASS TO TRY TO MAKE SURE THEY DON’T GO WITHOUT, RUN YOUR SHIT!!!!!!! THAT’S RIGHT RUN YOUR SHIT!!! IF YOU ASK FOR A BEER, YOU SHOULD GET ONE; NOT SITTING THERE LOOKING LIKE A DAMN FOOL BECAUSE SHE GOT AN ATTITUDE ABOUT SOMETHING THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. FOR INSTANCE, LET’S SAY SHE HAS KIDS FROM A PRIOR RELATIONSHIP AND HE’S BEING A PIECE OF SHIT ASS FATHER. WELL, HELL; IF HE BEEN THAT WAY FROM THE BEGINNING WHY WOULD HE CHANGE. SO, NO I’M NOT GOING TO LISTEN TO HOW SHE HATES MEN IF THAT’S THE CASE; GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME ESPECIALLY IF I’VE MADE NO DIFFERENCE WITH HER KID OR KIDS PERIOD AND TREATED THEM LIKE MY OWN. SECONDLY, DON’T LET NO IN-LAWS RUN YOUR HOUSE. I DON’T GIVE A FUCK WHETHER IT'S HER MOMMA, DADDY, SISTERS, BROTHERS ETC. ONCE YOU START LETTING SOMEONE ELSE RUN YOUR HOUSE YOU LOSE ALL CONTROL. THIS ESPECIALLY GOES FOR THE DADDY, BROTHERS AND UNCLES. FELLAS, WE’RE ALPHA MALE WELL AT LEAST WE SUPPOSE TO BE SO WITH THAT BEING SAID YOU THINK ONE OF THEM WON’T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR HOUSE. FUCK THAT, "SHE’S MY LITTLE GIRL” OR “THAT’S MY SISTER” NOW; SHIT, IF YOU WANT TO PROTECT HER SO BAD TAKE HER AND THEM FUCKING KIDS WITH YOU. THEY’RE WORSE THAN ANY BULLY YOU’VE EVER MET. BROTHERS INITIALLY TRY TO INTIMIDATE YOU FROM JUMP. ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT ARE REAL LOSERS. A REAL MAN AIN’T GOT TIME TO BE IN HIS SISTERS BUSINESS LIKE THAT. HE’S TRYING TO KEEP HIS OWN THING TOGETHER. NOW, THIS DOES NOT GO FOR YOU DEADBEAT ASS MUTHAF%CKAS WHO GET A THRILL OUT OF HITTING ON YOUR GIRL JUST TO FEEL POWERFUL. THEY NEED TO WHOOP Y’ALL ASS. BUT, IF YOU HOLD IT DOWN THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT YOU DO "HOLD IT DOWN". I UNDERSTAND THAT A LOT OF US WAS BROUGHT UP IN SINGLE PARENT HOMES AND MOMS WAS THE STRONG ONE. HOWEVER, WE NEED TO SUMMON STRENGTH AND KNOWLEDGE FROM OUR GRANDDADDY’S ERA. THOSE WERE THE MEN THAT SHOWED US WHAT BEING A MAN WAS ALL ABOUT; MAKING SURE THE HOUSE WAS FED AND CLOTHED. STOP COPPING OUT TO “I WAS NEVER TAUGHT HOW TO BE A FATHER”! DON’T NO WOMAN WANT TO HEAR THAT SHIT, FIGURE IT OUT. ANOTHER ONE IS TO STOP LETTING THESE KIDS CONTROL THE HOUSE AND USUALLY IT’S HER KIDS BECAUSE FOR THE MOST PART THE BABY MOMMA (YEAH I SAID IT!); DON’T LET OUR KIDS STAY WITH US ESPECIALLY IF THEY’RE GETTING A CHILD SUPPORT CHECK. THE THING ABOUT THIS IS THAT THE GIRLS ARE WORSE THAN THE BOYS. USUALLY, IT’S THE OLDEST THAT TRIES TO SET THE TONE. HE OR SHE TRIES TO SHOW SOME TYPE OF DOMINANCE WHETHER ITS HER TRYING TO SHOW YOU SHE RUNS THE HOUSE OR HIM ACTING LIKE A LITTLE SPOILED ASS BRAT. LET’S START WITH HER FIRST; RELIEVE HER OF ALL THOSE ADULT DUTIES THAT HER MOMMA PUT HER IN CHARGE OF BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE’S A KID SO LET HER BE A KID. CHORES IS ONE THING BUT WHEN SHE GOT TO COOK, CLEAN AND GET HER YOUNGER SIBLINGS TOGETHER ON A REGULAR BASIS, THAT’S TOO MUCH! SHE DID’NT LAY DOWN AND HAVE THOSE KIDS. SO, WHY IS SHE BEING PENALIZED FOR HER MOTHER’S ACTIONS. NOW, IT’S THE OPPOSITE FOR HIM PULL THAT TITTY OUT HIS MOUTH IMMEDIATELY. GARBAGE, GRASS CUTTING, ROOM CLEANING AND ANY OTHER MAN BUILDING TECHNIQUE YOU CAN FIGURE OUT FOR HIM. HE NEED TO KNOW THAT LIFE IS GOING TO BE ROUGH AT AN EARLY AGE AND HE NEED TO BE ABLE TO STAND TEN TOES DOWN WHEN THOSE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS COME HIS WAY AND NOT TO DEPEND ON MOMMA ALL THE TIME!